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How to make personalized messages

Learn how to craft personalized LinkedIn messages using Gro’s AI writing assistant.

Updated over a month ago

Gro’s AI writing assistant can help you craft engaging LinkedIn comments and personalized connection requests that feel human, thoughtful, and relevant — all in just a few clicks.

💬 Generating Engaging Comments with AI

When using AI to write a comment on a post, your prompt should give clear guidance. Here’s an example of a strong prompt:

“I want to acknowledge their insights and add value by sharing a relevant experience. Focus on being supportive and constructive while maintaining a professional tone.

You can also customize:

  • Tone (e.g., agreeable, neutral, constructive)

  • Length (e.g., short, medium, long)

🎯 Tips for Better Comment Prompts:

  • Be clear about your tone – professional, friendly, thoughtful, etc.

  • Define your intent – show appreciation, add perspective, ask a question

  • Set a length limit – short comments perform better and feel more natural

  • Avoid vague prompts – specific guidance = better results


🤝 Crafting Personalized Connection Requests with AI

You can also use AI to send customized, meaningful connection requests. Here's how:

1. Configure the settings first

  • Choose your preferred tone, formality, and approach, etc.

  • (Optional) Enable "Engage with Recent Activity" – Gro will analyze the recipient’s recent LinkedIn posts to create a more relevant message.

2. Guide the AI with a clear prompt

Once your settings are in place, provide context to help AI tailor the message. For example:

“Write a short, friendly LinkedIn connection request message for a startup founder connecting with another founder. Tone: casual and authentic. Under 200 characters. Mention something specific from their background.”


✏️ Prompt Writing Tips for Connection Requests

🔹 1. Be clear about who you are and who you're messaging

Mention your role and who you're reaching out to. This helps AI generate a message that feels tailored and relevant.

🔹 2. Set the tone

Clarify the tone you want — e.g.:

  • “Casual and authentic” for peer-to-peer

  • “Warm and professional” for senior executives

  • “Polite and curious” for learning-focused outreach

🔹 3. Provide a purpose

Tell AI why you’re connecting (e.g., to network, explore a partnership, ask for insight). This gives your message weight and authenticity.

🔹 4. Include a personal hook

Ask the AI to reference something specific from their profile:

  • A recent post they made

  • Their role at a company

  • A shared interest or mutual connection

🔹 5. Set a character limit

To stay within LinkedIn’s limit, mention that the message should be under 200 characters.

🔹 6. Avoid generic phrases

Guide the AI to skip clichés like “I’d love to add you to my network”. Instead, aim for something human, thoughtful, and specific.

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